Kisharon’s new bar and bat mitzvah programme tackles one of the biggest stumbling blocks to inclusivity for learning disabilities – and that is fear. “People don’t know how to react when meeting someone with learning disabilities. There is a real sense of fear, and the only way to deal with it is by exposure,” said Rachel Ucko, Kisharon’s Community Inclusion Coordinator.

Josh Robeson raised £3,000 in the run-up to his
bar mitzvah by swimming 13 miles over 5 months

Young people reaching out to Kisharon in the run up to their big day will find plenty of support for fundraising bake sales or car washes, but also step-by-step help to involve people with learning disabilities. “Bar and bat mitzvahs are not just a big party, but they’re about what can be done,” Rachel said.

At one of the many events Rachel organises for young people, she recalls the absolute terror of a group of boys about to meet several who were non-verbal. “I spoke to them about their fears and they were absolutely fine. It’s all about opening up these thought passages. Further along the line, breaking down these barriers might ignite an interest in volunteering or even work in the social care sector. “We’re pleased to have fundraisers, but ask that any initiative should be action-based rather than funding-based.”

Twelve and thirteen year olds can expect plenty of creative ideas, and help to orchestrate any activity or event they have in mind. “We’ll even help to promote it,” Rachel said.

Kisharon’s new programme brings home that chesed should extend to befriending and volunteering, as well as to fundraising. “Kisharon wants to educate young people about disability awareness and to show that inclusivity and equality are paramount,” she added.

For more information about the programme, email: Rachel.ucko@kisharon.org.uk